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My father died when I was 3 years old. I have no recollection of him. The most vivid memory I have pertaining to him is being in a room I...

Sometimes making it through the day is a massive enough victory; sometimes that is more than enough...

Grace makes the incoherent notion that a holy God would still desire us whole regardless of how far we stray and how long we have tramped...

I have been waiting to have people I can lean on when it gets hard, people I can call at 2am to talk about how crappy the day was...

I am learning to let God guide me, to trust that He factored in my stupidity when He brought me here, and thus has a way out for me..

“Because we respect each other’s differences,” she said, “You are okay with me being whatever I am, and I am okay with you being whatever..

LOVE IS IN THE SUBTLETIES Over the past year or so, I made it my goal to stop looking for love in the wrong places, to consciously stop...

CHANGE I am a paradoxical person. I find monotony tedious and draining yet I cling onto it like a lifeline because I am too afraid of...

Over the last year or so, Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie morphed into one of my favourite authors for many reasons, the main one being that...

Dear young man, I know. I know that you are hardly ever given your flowers before it’s too late. I know that your good deeds often go...

To put it simply, yes, we know about these things. That is good. It’s better than where we were 5-10 years ago. But what are we doing with t

Yes, men have it easier than women. But easier does not mean easy. We are fighting our own battles too every single day...

Yet rapists, wife-beaters, harassers live comfortably among us, dine with us and play with us without a worry in the world....

So we say, “That’s how Zambians are. White people would never do this,” when someone does something ludicrous as though such is what....

It’s a bit laughable to say that I only realized that I am black when I came to Turkey because clearly, I have been black all my life....